This morning we began learning/discussing what is required of a chaplain when a patient dies. The passing of a loved one generally does not initiate feelings of shame, invariably there will be feelings of guilt for some.
I know I’ll be given opportunities to be part of the experience when someone passes while at the hospital. It will be during those times that I’ll get to witness the potential feelings of grief and guilt of the family members, loved ones and probably others.
Our feelings are valid and it is important to seek the root cause(s) of these feelings, regardless of what others may say, feel or do. I know that I will also experience many different feelings when a patient passes. I pray for wisdom and insight to be able to seek out the root causes for me.
More will be revealed…
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Published by Rev. Daniel Borysewicz
Daniel Borysewicz, MDiv, CSR is a progressive, sex positive, hospice chaplain and educator seeking radical inclusion for all people; regardless of race, nationality, sexual or gender identity, or socio-economic class. As a spiritual guide, Reiki practitioner, educator, facilitator, and U.S. Navy veteran, Daniel works to provide solutions for problems that individuals struggle with including shame, desire, and grief to name a few. This is accomplished through one-on-one interactions, support groups, education events, and social media. Diverse experience as a natural networker and leader who connects people, ideas, and resources to improve the spiritual and emotional wellbeing for all people, including those living in the margins. Daniel is currently a Spiritual Care Counselor with Hospice of the East Bay (www.hospiceeastbay.org) in Pleasant Hill, CA; Community Educator; and volunteer clergy at Metropolitan Community Church San Francisco (www.mccsf.org).
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